What if, for instance, it were wrong to think that a government should be the source for the validation of the love and commitment between any two people? (It is wrong to think that, isn't it?) But what if that validation were the only way to assure certain benefits and rights?
That's what I would call being trapped by an overcomplicated machine; that's what I would call being smashed between the wheels of bureaucracy.
And what do we do when we are unjustly trapped? What have humans always done in these circumstances? The answer is bloody and profound.
The real question is: When will it happen? (Or, are we too drugged with the opiate of "the way it is" to ever see it happen?)